Mastering Happiness : 19 Proven Strategies to Keep Your Girlfriend Blissfully Happy


  1. Respect her

The most important thing, even if you don’t do anything else, is to respect her.
Basically treat her the way that you would expect to be treated. When you love someone, that’s the most important thing for you to do. There cannot be true love without respect. Valuing your culture will impressed in your first visit.

• Value her opinions, give her the chance to speak her mind, never demean her or insult her, don’t judge her, understand and appreciate her for who she is, be honest with her, etc.

  1. Remove the conditions for your love

When a man makes his love conditional on the choices that a woman makes to please him, he’s really just loving himself. And a good woman deserves more than that.

• Don’t make her feel like she has to choose between making you feel happy and taking a job that makes her feel fulfilled. Don’t make her feel like she has to choose between you finding her attractive and the massive discomfort associated with pubic shaving or waxing. These are the kinds of decisions that she should know you’re going to have her back on, no matter the outcome.

  1. Listen to her

Don’t just be quiet when she’s talking, actually listen to her. Active listening involves asking questions and really responding to what she’s saying. This tells her that you’re really paying attention, but it also helps you focus more and remember what she’s saying.

Just acknowledge how she feels, don’t take control of the conversation.

  1. Don’t be a jerk

Take full responsibility for what comes out of your mouth, as well as how you choose to interpret what you hear. When you make a mistake, own up to it and work to make it better. Don’t be selfish in your interactions or your relationship as a whole.

  1. Never take her for granted

You can get away with letting yourself go physically, but you should never let yourself go emotionally. The second you start taking her for granted is the second she starts looking at other guys.

  1. Don’t be a burden

This is the fastest way to make a woman lose interest in you. You don’t want to be another “child” to take care of. You’re her man, not her son. This means that you need to be an adult, be reliable, and be responsible. Take care of yourself financially, help out around the house, be there for her when she needs help, and make good on the promises you make.

  1. Be loyal

Women that you’re with aren’t impressed by you being smooth with other ladies, and planting the seeds of distrust in her mind will only make her worry that you’re a jerk, even if you never cheat on her. Be loyal and don’t give her any reason to doubt you.
• Spend time with her more than any other woman.
• You should also stop putting on the show of attracting other women. Don’t wear clothes that are designed to appeal to other women. Just wear what you know she likes. You have a woman already, so you shouldn’t be worried about others wanting you, right?

  1. Pay attention!

Notice what she says and does. Pay attention to when she says she “wishes” something or talks about wanting to do something. You should also pay attention to how she chooses to spend her time. This will help you understand what’s important to her. Just like some things that are important to you are boring to her, you’re going to have to at least understand some things that don’t matter to you. Plus, you never know when you might miss something that’s actually very important.

  1. Compliment her in the right way

Compliments are a sure bet to making a woman happy, as they are with anyone, but you have to compliment them correctly. Don’t compliment her on things like her figure, because then she will stress about keeping it nice. You also shouldn’t compliment her on things like her hair or eyes.
Everyone has hair and eyes. Instead compliment her on things that she has control over an
excellent taste in clothes, a highly-trained skill or talent, a good sense of humor, etc.

  1. Do things with her

Your woman likes to spend time with you…that’s why she’s with you after all! If you’re busy or you don’t get to see her very often, it’s important to spend quality time with her. Do things together that give you a chance to really talk, like having a dinner date or going on a walk to the park. She’ll probably have ideas for things she’d like to do, so ask her too!

  1. Say how you feel

Women need to be told that we love them. We erroneously think that our actions like working and providing for the family clearly communicate our love for her. We often think that the more we work, the stronger the message of our love is. Wrong again. Nothing can substitute looking in her eyes and telling her: “I love you.”

  1. Focus on your bedroom skills

Becoming better in bed is a good goal for everyone. Even if you think you’re a king, you probably have at least a little room for improvement. Study female anatomy and erogenous zones. Better yet, ask her for a refresher course on making her feel incredible. She’ll love the chance to show you just how she likes it.

  1. Encourage her

Encourage her to pursue her dreams and goals in life. If she finds something that makes her happy, give her space and tools she needs to do that thing. She would do the same for you happiness: this is how relationships work!

  1. Make her feel like everything she’s ever wanted to be

Every woman had ideas about what she wanted to be when she was younger. Maybe she wanted to

be a really good mom, or maybe she wanted to be a problem solver. No matter what her
fundamental desires were, help her to feel like with you she meets those goals. This means giving her opportunities and compliments and encouraging her to do the things that she wants to do.

  1. Be her partner in life

This is what we’re all looking for in a relationship: someone who will be there for us. Help her solve her problems if she wants help and you’re able. Don’t just solve them for her and take control of the situation. Instead, give her the tools she needs to help herself.

  1. Be yourself

Your woman wants to see you for who you really are. This makes her feel more connected to you. If she feels like you’re just some stranger, she’s never really going to be happy. So let her in. Let her see your vulnerabilities and the things you don’t like about yourself. They will only make her love you more.

  1. Be fun!

Everybody wants to be with someone who makes their life more interesting. We don’t want a boring partner! Be the source of fun in her life by keeping your activities varied and unique. Sign the two of you up for dance lessons at the local community center. Take her on a hiking trip for the weekend. Anything that suits her personality and keeps you doing new things together!


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